Josie over at "Write A Letter Wednesday" gave us quite a challenge. It was to write a letter and give some advice. I'm not much on giving advice through a letter. But boy howdy can I face to face. So I'm giving it a try. If you'd like to read other letter wrote or would like to join in hop on over
I'm not sure anyone has every informed you that it is easier to be kind and positive to others around you.
Finding fault and being negative all the time doesn't make anyone want to get up and do anything for you.
The nagging and fault finding makes them want to run in the other direction. To hide and not be around you at all.
It makes no one want to come and help you or be apart of what you are doing.
They are always worried and wondering if I do this or that or say this will they find fault?
No one wants to be around that kind of a person. They are draining on the soul.
I'm sure you find your soul tried and weak all the time with all that negativity coming out of you all the time.
I think you would find it much more productive and easier if you tried speaking with positivity.
A more gentle and caring tone.
It is much easier to smile and give a positive affirmation then to look for fault at every turn.
When you always look for fault they never want to do anything.
They think gee why?
They aren't every going to be happy with anything I do. So why should I even try?
When you praise them for their efforts, give them a bit of a pat on the back; tell them they are making your day a bit brighter by helping you. You would be surprised what efforts and amazing things would happen when you apply this to your communication skills daily. You will feel better and so will those around you.
A smile goes a long ways.
Just letting someone know that they make a difference is huge!
I think if you tried to be kinder and use a more positive attitude you would find you get much better results in your life.
You would be much happier as well.
Being negative and fault finding isn't good for anyone.
It actually is more damaging to you then anyone.
It causes many health problems and some that you can stop from happening.
You see it will cause you to be stressed needlessly.
Trying to do things that you need not do that you truly have no control over.
Yelling and making your stomach hurt.
Maybe raising your blood pressure as well which can result in so much more; strokes and heartaches.
I think you should stop and think.
Don't focus on the negative but on the positivity. You would feel much better and so would those around you.
You make yourself all tense and upset when really life is much to short to worry about those things you have no control over.
Finding the negative in everything doesn't make one happy. But if you found the positive you would be so much happier.
Try finding something once a day to be happy and positive about. I think you would find life is a much nicer place to be.
I think if you tried to enjoy life more and quit looking for things to complain about and being so negative about life and those around you; you would feel so much better.
I think your quality of life would improve greatly.
I am concerned and thought this little bit of advice would help you have a happier more positive life with more productivity.
If you would like to sit and talk and find ways to make this transition easier for you please let me know.
Id like to see you be happy and not so negative and stressed all the time.
Do you have people in your life that are draining and negative?